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Sunday, August 29, 2010

The Beauty in Brokenness

Dina here. As some of you know, I've been teaching a summer writing class at my church for the last eight weeks called "The Inspiration and the Perspiration." You can see the online version at my personal blog: http://awesomeinspirationals.blogspot.com/.  So today, I'd like to offer a devotion by one of my students, who has also become a regular Inkwell follower, Louise Mendez. Louise has faced serious struggles and heartaches lately. Let's all surround her with our love and encouragement today.

The Beauty in Brokenness
by Louise Mendez

The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise. Psalm 51:17

All of us have experienced a broken heart at one time or another. This is not anything new to human beings. We live in a culture by which the latest way to decide to stop seeing someone is to tell them via a text message or email. As adults our hearts are tested through the trials of life and many of the times it seems as though our hearts are shattered, irreparable, or crushed in the depth of our souls. We can agree with the psalmist when he wrote, “I am poor and needy. My heart is wounded deep inside of me” (Psalm 109:22). He understands our tears.

What do you do when your heart is broken? When the doctor gives you a diagnosis that you weren’t expecting? When your spouse has given you bad news? When your dreams crumble? When life happens? Your body and heart may grow weak, yet God is the strength for your heart. God uses brokenness for us to get closer to Him. He is everything that we will ever need. (Psalm 73:26). God is not sitting back, easily distracted, and overwhelmed by your brokenness. Rather, He stands ready to help you in your need. What do you need? You need God to repair the damage and mend the broken pieces of your heart.

One of my favorite really old songs talks about placing the broken pieces at the Savior’s feet and He will put them back together and make your life complete. Brokenness produces confidence. Brokenness allows us to know that we are human and reveals how much we need God to get us through life.

“When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something’s suffered damage and history it becomes more beautiful.”- Barbara Bloom once said.

Aggrandize means to make great or greater in power, wealth, rank, or honor- to enhance the power, reputation or position of. The broken object is repaired with a precious substance which enhances its strength and purpose. And in the Japanese culture, the repair (the evidence of brokenness) magnifies the beauty of the object.

In your brokenness allow God to aggrandize your heart. Give Him the freedom to put the pieces back together filling the cracks with His precious substance. He is ready to do so with all the resources of heaven at His disposal. As His Spirit and Truth are used to fill in the damage, you will become even more beautiful and more valuable to Him. Your brokenness doesn’t scare God at all. In fact, His desire is to bring people into your life, bring Truth to your heart and bring praise to your lips to help repair the damage. Don’t minimize His power. Don’t diminish His authority. Exalt His power in your life and become the beautiful person He has intended you to be.

11 comments:

Lisa Karon Richardson said...

Thanks so much Louise for sharing this with us. It's a beautiful concept. I'd never heard the example of the Japanese. That is awesome. One of my favorite verses is God's promise to give us beauty for ashes.

Louise said...

Thank you Lisa.I was praying about examples to use and the Lord helped me find this example.The promises of God do help us get through those really hard times.

Sandy Elzie said...

Louise,
This was beautiful and touching. I pray it helps a hurting heart today.

Sandy

Louise said...

Sandy that is my prayer as well.I pray that a hurting heart allows the Maker of the stars to hear the sound of their broken heart and and also to heal that heart.

Dina Sleiman said...

Thanks, Liz, for being willing to share this. It's an excellent example of Holy Spirit inspiration and hard work coming together into a beautiful piece of writing.

Louise said...

Thanks Dina,
Everyone can feel free to follow my personal blog where I have more writing and things. www.blogspot.com/devotion-4-him.html

Bex said...

Amen! The most beautiful women are the ones who have been broken by the world and surrendered to the spirit. Wish there was an easier way - but the easy way is almost never the right way.

Debra E. Marvin said...

Just beautiful, Louise! I'm glad you were willing to guest with us today and share such a sweet message. I agree with Bex. There's just something so much deeper to someone who has suffered and comes out stronger for it.

The example of the Japanese using Gold to repair is new to me, also.

Thanks Dina.
One of the things I like about blogging here is how God uses our visitors and their comments to bless us.

Susanne Dietze said...

Thank you, Louise! What a wonderful post. I appreciate you sharing with us.

aboustani said...

very powerful, in my life I was fired up christian then went to college and my world turned to partying; but, as i was struggling with this problem of drinking and being a youth ministry major for a year my brokenness starting mending. I went on a youth retreat, as an adult volunteer, and the topic of the retreat was on brokenness (i feel bad because I feel like gained too much and focused on myself during this time) But, I have slowly been able to mend my life back to Jesus and with the help of someone that everyone on campus never saw happening (me and her dating) I have been able to forgive myself (i really struggled, prior to the mend, i would blame myself and say no good is in me anymore, i had given up.) But, this amazing girl i was dating saw beauty in me for some reason and has stuck with me in my journey and been the light i have needed. I'm truly blessed and believe that even though I'm broken, I will be ok....I have shared my testimony with the youth and have warned them about the dangers of going to college and how to succeed in spiritual growth there. I am now involved with campus ministries and I'm so blessed in my life, I can appreciate my "dark" time, it has given me a deeper appreciation for Jesus and what it means to be a Christian.

Dina Sleiman said...

Thanks for sharing, aboustani. I love the way people can find these blog articles months later and be blessed by them.