Sunday, January 3, 2010

Advice?

By Lisa Karon Richardson

The other morning I was getting ready to face the day. I took a shower, (impressive, I know) and then I opened the bathroom door to let some of the steam escape since the fan is broken. The scent of Pantene, Dial, shower gel, and lotion, mingled in the steamy haze. Max the dog wandered in and in the random way my mind often works I thought: “It smells kind of strong in here. I wonder if I smell that strong… Am I one of those people who smell as if they have marinated in their perfume?”

I looked down at the dog and saw the unmistakable curling of his lip. For an instant I wished I could ask him if I had overdone things. A second later I came to my senses. Of course I wouldn’t ask the dog. That was ridiculous… A dog’s sense of smell is super sensitive. Any advice he gave on the matter would simply be overkill.

I know what you’re thinking. But I assure I am at least technically sane.

And I have a point.

How many times do I consider going to God for advice on some issue I’m facing, only to write off His opinion on the matter. Don’t look at me like that. I know I am not the only one who has ever done this.

We (I insist on using the plural, even if I am alone) sometimes beg God for guidance, but when it comes we turn our noses up. “Well yes,” we think, “that’s all right for you. You are 100% holy. Of course, you think like that. You are way more sensitive to this issue than is necessary.”

It hasn’t escaped my notice that this easy discounting of God’s good sense generally takes place when I don’t particularly like what I’m hearing. It’s pretty easy to embrace direction that leads you where you want to go. Not so easy when He is leading us away from something we want to do, or worse leading us toward something we don’t want to do. Maybe that’s why God so often asks something of us that is beyond our comfort zone, beyond our expectation, even it seems, beyond our capacity.

Forgive this next analogy. I hope you’ll see the point I’m trying to make. Hunters use dogs, precisely because they can smell more than a man can. In fact, the dog’s nose is said to be 1000 times more sensitive than a human’s. Point being that the hunter doesn’t know where the prize is. Neither can he see the trail, but he trusts his dog’s sense of smell. He doesn’t insist on trying to take a certain path, because he knows that he will find his prey only if he allows the dog to lead.

In our lives, when we have a dream we are chasing, we’ll do better to follow His lead, even when we don’t understand the route He’s leading us down. If we trust His guidance we will not be lost. In the spiritual scheme of things, "to obey, is better than to sacrifice."

What are you asking God about right now? What are you willing to do with His answer?

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Taking Care of You in 2010


2010 is off to a rousing start
and we're not afraid!
Now it's time to take a look
at taking care of you...

Join us next week
for more fun!


Sunday
Putting an Ink on Scripture
Lisa

Monday - Friday
TAKING CARE OF YOU 
Monday - Patti
Tuesday - Niki
Wednesday - Susanne
Thursday - Wenda
Friday - Jill

Saturday
An Inkalicious Review
Jen




Hope to see you all around the Inkwell!

The Young Victoria





A movie review by Debra E. Marvin...like you want my opinion


We Americans ( as in U. S. of Americans) are an odd lot. We hang on to our hyphenated history as if being American is not enough. All my ancestors came from that darling little island across “the pond” that holds three little countries. If I’m ever diagnosed with multiple personalities it’s the English-Welsh-Scots blood in me at war! (I’ll spare you the percentages) Seriously, it puts me in awe to think of the day when any one of them got in a sailing vessel and left their families forever to start life in a new, wild land.

I’ve waited long to see The Young Victoria, its US release eight months later than in the UK. And, with little fanfare. As my Netflix queue is almost entirely BBC period piece films, you will not be surprised that I searched this movie out. Now that its actress Emily Blunt has received a Golden Globe nomination, you may hear more of it.

So here is Inktropolis’ first movie review. Your reviewer is a middle aged, female, obsessive-in-the-nicest-sort-of-way (see above) writer who happens to have a WIP (work in process) set in 1837, the year of Victoria’s ascension to the throne. If you want an unbiased movie review, away wi’ ye!

To prepare, I watched the A&E version of Victoria and Albert. I like to compare (we’ll talk Jane Austen movies another day) and then chase after facts: what was true and what was ‘dramatic license’.

Both movies show us the confined life Victoria had as a child. Rather than give history on the royal family and their marriages to European monarchs, let’s leave it as Victoria was a shoo-in for Queen amidst the requisite royal intrigue. (You DO read Phillipa Gregory, don’t you?). Her widowed mother, the Duchess of Kent, was ‘guided’ by Sir John Conroy (played here by Mark Strong-- you ladies will know as one of Emma’s Mr. Knightleys and is currently the bad guy in Sherlock Holmes). Both mom and Sir John are disliked and publicly slammed by the sitting King, Victoria’s silly uncle William. He vows to stay alive until Victoria is 18 and can take the crown, lest her mother be appointed Regent. She turns 18. He dies. She does the crown and robe and scepter thing. The prime minister, Lord Melbourne begins his relationship as counselor and friend. Here’s where the movies really diverge.

The Young Victoria offers a younger, charming, selfish Melbourne who not only seems to want to guide her but to marry her. A&E’s version shows him as a sad, older mentor. (Truth? Who knows? Melbourne did have a fascinating history of scandal himself but was 58 when Victoria was 18.)

Each movie brings out a different “trusted adviser” to Victoria who offer the same advice: You must learn to live with Parliament, but politicians come and go and The Monarchy stays forever.

Victoria matures, steels herself for public service and begins the job of ruling over/alongside two battling parties.

Albert, meanwhile, is sitting in the middle of Europe's Coburg dynasty, and being pushed to do what he needed to do: Marry Victoria. (For Europe’s benefit and because it was the thing to do. Marry your cousin.)

Here’s another difference in the movies: The A&E movie's Albert resents the push and doesn’t love her until later in the marriage when time had softened his heart toward her—in fact, he’s quite resentful of his empty role as prince consort. The Young Victoria’s Rupert Friend (some of you will recognize him as Mr. Wickham in the 2005 Pride and Prejudice, aka the Keira Knightley version) plays an Albert who falls in love with Victoria early and honestly worries she will not choose him. I think he does a smashing job of it. Both movies suggest a young man of intelligence who gives great advice--when she’s willing to accept it. He steers her consciousness to the common people and encourages her to respect deserving politicians despite their party background.

(Seasonal note: The A&E movie also reminds us of the impact V and A had on our modern Christmas traditions.)

The Young Victoria stretches the truth of an actual assassination attempt by having dear Albert shot while protecting his wife (after an argument, isn’t that touching?). This movie ends around the time of their first child’s birth, and felt abrupt to this seasoned movie watcher. All I can say is, "We are not amused."

In case some of you don’t know what happens after this, I won’t spoil it for you. It is history, after all.
For you Anglophiles, find the A&E version which gives a much longer look at the Queen’s life. Then, check out Mrs. Brown, with Dame Judi Dench.

So that’s your very opinionated review of The Young Victoria. A movie I gave five stars to before I saw it, thanks to YouTube fan tributes, my UK and Australian sources and the movie's website. If you like costume drama, I think you’ll be satisfied. Well-filmed, beautiful scenery details, good casting and the costumes are amazing! I hope I’ve at least brought this movie to your attention.

Leave a comment for a cool little memento of my visit to the theatre. I mean theater. Sorry.

Have you seen it?
What's your favorite British history flick?
Have you ever had Yorkshire Pudding?
Would you like me to stop asking questions now?
Okay, check out my links:
---this is the movie site for the colonies:
http://theyoungvictoriamovie.com/

---this is the movie site for mother country:
http://www.theyoungvictoria.co.uk/

---this is a you tube trailer with the most details:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttdndRyoehM




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Friday, January 1, 2010

Happy New No Fear New Year



thoughts from Debra E. Marvin

No Fear? You can't be serious!

Do you ever wonder what it is about humans that God finds most frustrating? I’m not doubting His love and pleasure in us. I do think, however, that fear is our most limiting factor. I can encourage someone else through a tough time with every confidence but do I win my own battles with fears and worries as well? No.

This week the Inkies have been talking about Fear. I don’t know what I can add to it and I wish I had the magic answer. I thought of sharing my deepest fear--but I was afraid. Duh.


I’ll list some general ones:
Fear of debilitating illness or disease in ourselves or our loved ones, or their deaths.
Fear of financial failure and loss of comforts
Fear of embarrassment, ridicule, loss of control
Fear of doing something that is unpleasant and takes us out of her comfort zone
Fear of man – concern more for what others think of us than for telling them the truth of Christ’s redemptive love.

Fear of losing unsaved loved ones and knowing we failed them by our inactivity.

Mine are in there. Are yours?

Today is my mother’s birthday. Yes, she's the New Year's Baby. But she won't remember.



She is 82 today and for the first time in her life she is living apart from her family. She lived with her parents till she was married and at the time of my father’s death they were living with me. But my mother has Alzheimer’s and now lives in a special care unit in a nursing home. Her mother had the same exact history. I’ve broken the tradition because I . . . now live alone. Will that break the pattern? Of course not.
I have no fear of living alone, but I used to fear this debilitating disease.
I don’t anymore. I can’t.
I prepare myself and my children and hope that I take after my dad’s side of the family or that the Lord comes before I turn 80 or that something else takes me there sooner.
If I lived in fear of it, I’d lose all ability to enjoy what I have now and I know that God is in control.

By the way, getting my mother into a place where she is happy and safe was a miracle.

Why can’t I put all my other fears aside as easily?
My fears are never from lack of trust in God, but come from my own inadequacies. Ways I failed my family and friends. Fears that I did a disservice to them. So I have to put all my trust in a God who can work around me, in spite of me and that maybe I can still be of use to Him.

Oh. Forgot one. Snakes. Garden snakes don’t frighten me but I have a knees-turn-to-jelly fear of big snakes. I used to have recurring nightmares about anacondas.


Fear Not but Behold, I bring you tidings of great Joy. A savior born that is Christ the Lord.
Behold, as in LOOK AT THIS Savior, NOT THAT. Not that snake, or that disease or that insecurity.

2 Timothy 1:7
For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

One of our Seekerville Friends, Glynna Kaye, offered this and I'm borrowing it: FEAR stands for False Evidence Appearing Real. Don't waste your time fearing the unknown or worrying over what may never happen. Cling to the truth.

Happy New Year from Inktropolis. We've been blessed getting to know each other better and getting to know our online friends and followers. We look forward to an amazing 2010!
debraemarvin.com


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