Showing posts with label Patti Lacy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Patti Lacy. Show all posts

Monday, February 21, 2011

Responding to Racism with a Christ-Colored Pen

by Dina Sleiman

Don’t you just love it when you stumble upon a book that gets the wheels in your mind spinning and permanently changes the way you view the world. I certainly do. Hmm, I think I may have mentioned that recently. And before I fall into the temptation to give you an exhaustive list of those books, let me get to my point. This summer I read What the Bayou Saw by Patti Lacy. You might recall that Patti is a former Inky, so you can imagine my excitement when I realized she had written one of those life changing books dealing with one of today’s toughest issues: racism. I waited until now to post this in honor of Black History Month.

I’m shocked and sobered each time I’m reminded of how atrocious the racial situation was in America when my own parents were children. This book takes a look at the deep South in the 1960’s and will turn your stomach in a good way with the stunning and very realistic portrayal of racial injustice. The young girl in the story calls to mind Huckleberry Finn as she deals with guilt over desiring to love and accept the blacks around her. She has to hide her relationship with her new best friend, which leads to all sorts of horrendous trouble. Yet Patti Lacy forges bravely forward and withholds none of the awful details.

Perhaps even more shocking than the glimpse into recent history, is the fact that the fictional present in the book is Midwestern America, where white supremacists are still wreaking havoc at a local university. This resurrection of racial issues in the life of the heroine forces her to face her haunting past.

For me, this book brought up all sorts of thoughts and memories as well, but of a different sort. I grew up loving red, yellow, black, and white equally. So one of my first memories of racism was a story from my mother. During her teen years when a black friend of hers was forbidden entrance into a white friend's home, my mother was so enraged that she refused to enter as well and sat on the porch the entire time. And I recall my parents dropping me off at government housing for my African-American friend's birthday party. I’m sure it wasn’t easy for my overprotective mother to leave me in the ghetto, but I’m so grateful my parents sent me that message.

I don’t say any of this to pat myself or my family on the back. And I don’t say this to try to talk my way out of my part in the racial rift in this country. Sometimes, as a people group, we need to repent on behalf of those who have committed atrocities. And on behalf of the white race, I am more than willing to apologize to the African-Americans in this country.

It can be easy to turn a blind eye to racism today. To glibly act as though it doesn’t exist. To blame it on others. But instead we should press toward healing and racial reconciliation. There are still divides and hard feelings between races in our nation.

I remember the night President Obama was elected. Although I could not bring myself to vote for someone with such blatantly liberal politics, I secretly hoped he would win. I kept all my prayers in the “your will be done” category, because I had a sneaking suspicion that God wanted to do a work in this nation through President Obama. I felt that electing our first minority president would have an impact on a spiritual level, and go a long way in healing old racial wounds.

When I watched Obama’s victory speech, I clapped and cried along with everyone else. As the camera panned over brown-skinned faces filled with hope, my heart welled along with them. When Sasha and Malia walked confidently across the stage in their beautiful designer dresses, I knew I was witnessing history in the making.

But racism still exists. On one hand Obama’s victory was a victory on the racism front. It proved to our nation that blacks are not inherently inferior and whites are no longer inherently prejudiced. On the other hand, the way we perceive race as an issue in this presidency points to residual problems.

My brother recently moved to the Deep South, where segregation thrives. He quickly discovered that the new version of racism involves all the white people sending their kids to private schools, and his family is still struggling with how they should respond to this situation. Blacks and whites remain geographically, economically, and culturally segregated in that part of America.

Let us all pray for a complete racial reconciliation in our country, and let us all look for ways to reach out and bridge that gap. Thank you, Patti, for bringing this important subject to my attention once again and giving me this opportunity to look at it through fictional eyes.

What does black history month mean to you? What can you do to help bridge the racial divide in our country? What books have you read by African-American authors that have touched your life?


Dina Sleiman: Dance with Passion. Dina writes lyrical stories that dance with light. She is an aspiring novelist and a published poet, but she is also much more. Most of the time you will find this Virginia Beach resident reading, biking, dancing, or hanging out with her husband and three children, preferably at the oceanfront. She is passionate about anything related to creativity. Over the years she has enjoyed many opportunities to teach literature, writing, and the arts. Her primary goal is to serve God and live a spirit-led life. Join her as she discovers the unforced rhythms of grace. For more info visit her at http://dinasleiman.com/

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Faith of our Fathers


Faith of our Fathers

Hebrews 11

by guest blogger, Author Patti Lacy

“I’ve prayed and prayed about this.” A friend sat on the edge of my cracked old couch. “God just isn’t answering.” Angst contorted her well-sculpted features. “Like, maybe my faith isn’t strong enough. Maybe there’s something wrong with me here. What is God trying to say about me?”

Haven’t we all been there? Prayed and cried enough tears to fill that valley where God has placed us, yet God remains silent? Haven’t we begged the Holy Spirit to reveal a sin that would cause such a “no reply” for our Heavenly Father? Haven’t we yelled, “God, surely I’ve done penance by now. Paid the price for Sins X, Y, and Z. Why do You refuse to answer my prayers?

In trying times, we’re told as believers to run to the Word of God. Don’t you love the Good News in our Bible? Though I don’t love “the rest of the story” nearly as much as that Good News (and I don’t believe we’re intended to), God does give us answers to this perplexing question of “Why?”Bible Eric 2Image via Wikipedia

Read the Book of Job. “Concordance” (yeah, it’s a verb) scriptures on perseverance. Check out the Hall of Famers of Faith. Surely these singled out by God for faith—by the way, our kinsmen and -women through the blood of Christ—grappled with “Whys.”




Hebrews 11:1-8: Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see…By faith, Abel offered God a better sacrifice…By faith, Enoch was taken from his life so that he did not experience death. By faith, Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family. By faith, Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going…”

“All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance. And they admitted that they were aliens and strangers on earth (Hebrews 11:13).

With the slalom-skiing experience of a book release, it’s been great to trust God with my unanswered promises, to acknowledge bewilderment with some of the ways of this earth, and leave it at that.

Worship. Praise. Write. Laugh. Love. Sing.

Because He is God. And it is enough. Yes, it is enough.

Worship. Praise. Write. Laugh. Love. Sing.


Because He is God. And it is enough. Yes, it is enough.


. . . I failed to mention the last exciting part.


We have the promise of heaven. Eternity! That's a promise worth waiting for!





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Wednesday, February 2, 2011

It Takes A Village...

Debra here, and I'm happy to welcome our guest blogger Patti Lacy (who feels more like family than guest!).
Patti is visiting on Fiction Day with a little insight for readers, and a question for writers--
Come back tomorrow when she shares about faith!



It Takes A Village…to Find a
Rhythm.


Hello, Inkies! It’s wonderful to be back at the well. Lately blog appearance requests and scripts for radio shows fill my “in” box. I tackle them, one by one.

Who’s your publisher? Kregel.

What’s the title? The Rhythm of Secrets.

Who’s your favorite character? Um, the heroine.J

My fingers fly over the keyboard. So far, the standard blog questions. I’ll nail this baby before coffee-time!

I look at the next line.

How long have you been working on The Rhythm of Secrets?

I pause. Stare. Shake my head. Google the names Sandy Sperrazza and Gail Rosenblum, whose Chicago Tribune article back in two thousand and seven caused me to slosh coffee all over the morning paper and not even care.

A mother, giving away her baby. Having the span of time it takes for a cab to leave the hospital and return to a Home for Unwed Mothers (an eternity, a blink) with that child.

I double-check the date on the article. Yep, that story grabbed my heart in 2007 and wouldn’t let go. Over THREE YEARS! And November found me scrambling to meet my deadlineJ

Dear readers and writers, I labored on this my third literary baby, which was rife with research and interviewing and brainstorming. I never would’ve inked the contract without the help of:

Kregel, who bought a “risky” time period (the 1960s, though the backstory stretches back to the 1940s). Some consider the Vietnam era too early for contemporary, too late for historicals.

Kregel, who bought a book that journeys from New Orleans to St. Paul to Chicago to Thailand. Can a book tie and knot so many places into a compelling read? We will see.J

Sandy Sperrazza, who shared the pain, the loneliness, the shame she carried along with that little baby and was willing to let me capture it on paper.

Two Vietnam War vets who pulled out old ammo cases and slang and photos and uniforms and memories to help me set the nasty stage of anguished and hurting men on leave over in Bangkok.

A Thai national who drove seedy streets, his camcorder in hand, to capture on tape the more public (but no less shocking) aspects of the Bangkok red light district just so I could SEE it. Did I mention his wife, father, and little daughter accompanied him?

New Orleans octogenarians, including one tour guide who knows more about 1940s New Orleans than I know about my street here in Normal, Illinois!

A Master Gardner in New Orleans, who helped me feel the damp soil and see the curling vines of an old Victory Garden.

Who else helped me? Two firemen. My doctor. A Normal Police Department lieutenant.

A shelf of books whose authors placed me in the teeming Quarter, in a Thai brothel and also in the lush Thai countryside, in a mid-20th-century home for unwed mothers.

It takes a village to raise up an author. And a whole lotta time.

Patti Lacy with her awesome agent
Natasha Kern

I haven’t mentioned crit partners, the great Kregel editors, Cat in marketing, prayer partners, a supporting cast of family and friends. AND DON’T FORGET THE READERS!!!!!

Writer friends that infect me with the green skin disease of jealousy open their hearts, and books pour out, sometimes in months. For me, it seems to take a village. And a year or three!

Readers, did you realize how much went into a book?
Writers, how long does the process, from idea to inking your name on the inside cover, take YOU?


Thanks Patti!

The Inkies love Patti-- She's a warm, caring, and beautiful friend with an incredible heart for God. If you'd like to find out more about Patti, her books, and her faith, visit her at her website. I'll be reviewing The Rhythm of Secrets on Saturday February 12th. Thank you, Patti and thank you followers and visitors! Stay warm and safe!

Thursday, August 12, 2010

It’s All Fun and Games…and Mind-BOGGLE-ing



by Patti Lacy

It started as good, clean fun. Bro and I loved the clanking of the letters as we shook the plastic cube. We loved the excuse of a family vacation to reenact a World War.

Then a dictionary entered the scene.

A CPA who could check, double-check, and triple-check the score sheet.

Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to the world of family Boggle!

For some of you, it’s Scrabble. Does an on-line dictionary sit as judge and jury? Or do you give Hasbro, or whichever corporate giant is behind America's #1 word game, your hard-earned green and buy the Official Scrabble Dictionary?

Boggle builds vocabulary. Boggle increases the synapse firing of our slowly dying gray matter. Boggle, in our family, is a cardiovascular EXERCISE!!!

Did I mention that in our family, card games, Trouble, Apples to Apples have birthed tiffs? Have blazed in psychedelic colors the competitive streaks that run deep into our psyche?
These games have also sparked belly laughs. Enhanced an atmosphere of learning.

It’s mind-Boggling what one box of cubed letters has done for family relationships.

What games draw your family close? Are they of the word game genre?

Boggle your family…TODAY!!!


This post is dedicated to my brother Colonel Roy Qualls, F-15 squadron commander, veteran of the Gulf War, Katrina, Gustav, and a wonderful father, husband and friend. It’s been too long, BRO!!

Friday, July 16, 2010

We're Watching that AGAIN????

Movies mesmerized my dad, a product of the Depression and a stubborn plot of farmland that required every ounce of his family's sweat.

Perhaps a cool theater provided respite from heat. Perhaps technology's magic wand mesmerized an Okie/Texan who thought the whoosh of a windmill pretty cool. (During that era, they rarely whooshed in a productive way, you know.)

"It's pretty good," he'd say of a B flick, nodding his grizzled gray head. "Liked the scenery," he'd manage, of a one-star dud.

Dad found value in the nightly station's signoff test signal.

I determined to be different. Only FIVE STAR films would merit a second viewing, and only then as a "together" moment with soulmates. (Class assignments for my old college teaching of 101 Humanities film unit do not count!)

Here's my top eleven "must see again" American-produced films, in no particular order. Why did I choose them? They present a moral premise that has changed my life, have stood the test of time, have been recognized by at least one body of experts who judge film on merit. Speaking of merit, notable foreign, family, and edgy films merit another post!


The Sound of Music
Gone With the Wind
Schindler's List
Shawshank Redemption
Casablanca
Sunset Boulevard
To Kill a Mockingbird
Pride and Prejudice
Forrest Gump
Ben Hur
A Place in the Sun

What films have captured your heart...and a place in your DVD drawer?
Any comments on my faves?? Leave a comment...and you will enter a random drawing to win one of my FAVORITE FILMS OF YOUR CHOICE!!!!! Winner will be announced 7/22/10!

Here's looking at you, kids.
(Yeah, I can't count. What's new????)

And the winner of the RANDOM DRAWING IS::::::Louise!!! Congratulations!!!

Saturday, July 10, 2010

I'm Litystercically, Memoirfanfictionally Yours




A woman can never be too rich, too thin, or claim too many fiction genres as her favorite! I declare my independence with a post that embraces as many genres as I can think of. Why would any free-thinking woman choose another way?

The writer in me gets lost in rich prose, deep metaphors. Lazy sunny days beg me to slouch on the front porch chair, pen in hand, and underline phrases in the latest best-selling literary fiction. Have you read The Memory Keeper's Daughter by Edwards? What is the What by Eggars? The Passion of Mary-Margaret by Samson? The Book Thief by Zusak? I cry when well-written books creep to denouement...even if tears aren't plot-driven. Sigh. There's another writerly term or two to conquer...

For stormy nights, mysteries topple other shelf volumes. I've smudged Agatha Christie's pages; ear-marked 'em, too. They've earned a spot in my night-stand bookcase--right there with my Bible and The Complete Works of Oswald Chambers.

Who can resist the satisfaction of a romance? A click of the TV channel brings horrid images of blood spills, oil spills; an ocean of catastrophes. I send an SOS by grabbing a dilemma of the heart kind, which guarantees a hero, a heroine, and that often-needed predictable ending to soften the daily news of life.

As a girl, I used to skip past historical fiction--until my grubby hands gripped Gone With the Wind...and never let go. Next came To Kill a Mockingbird and a hundred other era-opening reads.

Was there REALLY a prototype Scarlett? Creative memoirs or creative nonfiction have so captured my mind, I've based my life work upon it. Where does truth stop and imagination begin in this line-blurring genre? Sigh. If I'm hungry for footnotes and facts, I gobble up nonfiction and/or memoir offerings. Besides, the truth is often stranger than fiction.

The "too weird" genres of science fiction and fantasy won me over with books like Butler's Kindred and Hinck's The Restorer. A red-faced me these imaginative, world-opening reads, vowing never to allow great writing to be limited by my own preconceived ideas about a writing category. And we artists are supposed to be OPEN!

Speaking of open, there's one book I mentioned that has earned a space on my night stand. It's the Bible, God's love letter to us. God's Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth. God's explanation of the past, hope for the present, and guarantee for the future in a mesmerizing tell-all best seller. Most nights, it's the last book that clunks next to the light. Most mornings, it's the first book whose crinkly pages open. Though the Bible reads like all my favorite fiction genres, it presents the one source of Truth, of Light, of Life and inspires those moral premises that enrich every other genre.




Yeah, I'm litystercically, memoirfanfictionally yours. Independent. Free from genre constraints. But only because I'm unequivocably, forever His.

Hey, just because I'm a wishy-washy mess doesn't mean you have to be. What's YOUR favorite genre (or two!!!)

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Rooms By Jim Rubart





Have you built an All-American mansion of a life…but left out a place for God?

Micah Taylor, a West Coast dot com success story, gets along quite fine, thank you, with his corporate partner/girlfriend, his spreads in prestigious magazines, the hot car and clothes and vacations that money can buy. No need for God in this Seattle superstar’s life.

Then a twenty-five-year-old letter arrives from a crazy old geezer of an uncle, one Micah never really knew. One his semi-estranged father seems to hate. The letter states that Micah has inherited an oceanfront home…on the very beach that haunts Micah with both blissful and tragic memories and beckons him to come, come…

Against the perfect girlfriend’s wishes, Micah blasts off for the Washington coast, sure he’s chasing a rogue wave. The promised dream house awaits, as do more enigmatic letters, which can only be read one per week. A newfound friend and beautiful young woman add Christian fellowship that fills a yearning Micah didn’t even know he had.

Everything seems too good to be true…and it is. Supernatural occurrences become the everyday as the dream home expands, room by room. Soon the past, present, and future mingle with such intensity, Micah doubts his sanity and flees to his bubble in Seattle, which offers neither solace nor escape from this new dream/nightmare life. Time after time, God draws him back to the beach with a magnetic pull as intense as the tides.

What is God doing to Micah? Why?


I love reading books that tweak your brain, your heart, and your soul. Rooms succeeded at all three levels. Congratulations to Jim for stepping outside traditional genres to pen a well-written book of one character’s fascinating journey to God. Rooms will provide excellent fodder for discussion groups or just a one-on-one with a soulmate friend. Find a spot on your bookshelf for Rooms!



To enter a random drawing for a copy of Rooms, please leave your name and e-mail addy!

5-12-10: And the winner is.....drum roll...Cara Lynn James!!! Congrats, Cara!

Patti Lacy

Friday, March 19, 2010

I'm No Saint...or Am I?



Saint Anton, Antioch, Antony, Andrew, Amandus, Adalgott, Adam, Aquila, Arcadeus...
Whew! There are scores of saints. Patron saints. Catholic saints. Episcopal saints. Anglican saints. Did you know there are even Methodist saints?

In fact, http://www.catholic.org/  claims over 10,000 named saints and beati from history, the Roman Martyology and Orthodox sources, but no definitive "head count".

To a Southern Baptist girl, saints wore funny robes and headdresses and often were depicted wearing halos. Saints were a half-rung down heaven's ladder from angels. And they were good. Very, very good.

A few earthly types were saints, or at least my mother called them that. "She's a saint to put up with him," she would moan when a certain couple walked down the street. Saints were regular humans whom God had given Job's patience and Mary's virtue. Saints didn't live in our house!

Or maybe they did.

God's word says one who calls on the name of Jesus as Savior also claims the title of Saint. The precious Holy Spirit even intercedes for believers (the saints) in accordance with God's will.

That ornery neighbor just might be a saint. So might your uppity friend. Through kinsmanship with Christ, believers possess the very power inherent in Christ Jesus.

But a saint shouldn't...let a bad word slip or kick a cabinet or think very black thoughts about friends and family...should she?

No, a saint shouldn't...and doesn't...when handing over her life's controls to Christ.

"When a man is rightly related to God, it is the Holy Ghost who works through him, and as long as he maintains the will to believe, the will to receive, and the will to obey, the life of Jesus is manifested in his mortal flesh.(Oswald Chambers 351)"

If you call on Christ as savior, you have been added to the roll of Saints! If you surrender self to Christ, others will recognize your saintly behavior and link you with Christ.

In a mind-boggling, mystical way, the head count for saints exponentially exceeds our earthly estimations! You just might see scores of saints...today!


How do you apply the term "saint"? Do you celebrate All-Saints Day?

Blessings!

Patti

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

A Poet...And a Saint?




Friends, meet Wilda Morris, a writer soulmate who will join me as staff at 2010 Green Lake Writers Conference (http://www.glcc.org/glcc/files/conferences/Writers%202010.) Wilda answered the call to share her gift with us today! Here's a poem from a saint--her mother--that just might change your life:

When I was a child, Mother, my sister Dorinda and I lived with my grandparents in a home where faith was highly valued, everyone active in the First Baptist Church.

I’m thankful that poetry was also valued. Zam, as my sister and I called our grandmother, had memorized a number of poems in school, and often recited them to us and our cousins. Three of the poems she often recited were “The Blue and the Grey,” a poem about Confederate women putting flowers on the graves of soldiers of both armies after the Civil War; “Lasca,” a dramatic (and tragic) narrative of the old West; and “Abou Ben Adhem,” a poem in which service to others is reckoned as service to God.



Mother didn’t often recite poetry from memory, but she sometimes wrote poems. She also read to us from A Child’s Garden of Verses by Robert Louis Stevenson and other books. As we grew, she read poems appropriate to our age. The one poem I most associate with Mother is “The Touch of the Master’s Hand,” by Myra B. Welsh, a poem about the grace of God, and the change it can make in a person’s life.


(Wilda's mother)

When my grandfather was dying, Sister Rosemary, a Roman Catholic and member of the Sisters of Mercy, visited his hospital room regularly and prayed for him. She and Mother became friends. In addition to her ministry at the Hospital, Sister Rosemary had a weekly ministry at the County Jail. She invited Mother to assist her in that ministry.



Mother had had many experiences of grace in her life, but she also had difficult memories to deal with. She wasn’t sure she wanted to get involved with people who were incarcerated. After much prayer, though—and with much trepidation—Mother agreed to give it a try. In jail ministry, Mother not only extended God’s love to the inmates; she also felt “the touch of the Master’s hand.” I tell part of the story in a poem first published in the Summer-Fall 2008 issue of Rockford Review.


(Wilda's mother)
Woodye Kessler at the County Jail

She tried to hold fear
in her hands but it spread
like melted butter
from her white hair
to the soles of her arthritic feet.
Even the Bible she carried
trembled as the sheriff
locked her in with Sister Rosemary
and a dozen inmates.

She shuddered when Eddie
opened his vile mouth,
cursing her, Sister Rosemary,
God and his cellmate.
But she came again each week,
studying scripture with the men,
sitting as close as she could
to the locked door,
as if it might provide escape,

till the day Eddie asked,
Why do you come here?
Without thinking, she replied,
Because I love you.
At that moment her fear
took flight and she knew
she did love him, knew
he was a child of God

and Eddie began a long journey
back toward the self
he’d abandoned in the pain
of abuse, disrespect,
dehumanization.

My friends, have you been resisting a call to share God’s love and grace? God has promised to be with you!
Wilda Morris, sharing her life journey at wildamorris.blogspot.com

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Lyrics to Live By?



For me, it started with the Beatles.

She loves you, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Hey, Jude, don’t make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better.
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better.

I should’ve been reading the Bible. I didn’t. Should’ve been memorizing my GA verses. I wouldn’t. But oh, how I could learn those “long hairs’” song lyrics!

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away
Now it looks as though they’re here to stay
Oh, I believe in yesterday.


The Liverpool boys grabbed my attention, then were edged out by Paul Revere and the Raiders and the Byrds and Dillon and Peter, Paul and Mary and the Stones and the Who and Deep Purple and dozens and dozens more. No particular rhyme. No particular reason. Just tunes and lyrics that grabbed hold of my rebellious teenage heart, my searching teenaged soul, my conflicted teenaged mind.

Some songs lent me hope.

To everything, turn, turn, turn, there is a season, turn, turn, turn.





Some expressed angst that grew like a cancer in my soul.

Oh, who’s to blame, that girl’s just insane, well, nothin’ I do don’t seem to work, it only seems to make matters worse…

Some echoed things life was teaching me.

It’s got to be the goin’, not the getting’ there, that’s good.

Monday, Monday, can’t trust that day. Monday, Monday, sometimes it just turns out that way.

You know, kicks just keep gettin’ harder to find.

They were harder to find, you know, those kicks. Thankfully God pulled me into His loving arms and set aflame the flickering candle of faith. Set aflame a desire to read His Word. Oh, how I enjoy Him.

Enjoy Him. For He is good, and His love endures forever (Lyrics by Josh Innerst, “Enjoy Him).

Yet those secular lyrics play on my old 33 hi-fi of a mind, sometimes when I least expect them. Not lyrics to live by, like the Bible. But words that echo the need for application of God's principles. Words that can teach. Inspire. Point to...The Word.

"It is my own belief (and here I shall not feel bad if no one follows me) that every good and beautiful thing which man has produced in the world has been the result of his faulty and sin-blocked response to the creative Voice sounding over the earth" (A.W. Tozer, The Pursuit of God).

Do secular lyrics—pop, rap, country, rock, reggae, hip-hop, opera, nursery rhyme, jazz, blues, soul, acid, alternative, heavy metal, multicultural, folk, punk, ska, ballad, barbershop, bluegrass, protest, funk, calypso, Celtic, disco, easy listening, elevator music—have a place in your life? Your memory?

Do you see truisms in these lyrics? Share a favorite line or two!

Monday, January 4, 2010

Taking Care of You? Get a Counselor!




2010 ushers in a new decade. A time to evaluate personal goals. A time to separate wants from needs.

In sync with the season, The Well kicks off “Taking Care of You” week. To prepare this post, I Googled my cares away and found…

Ten Affordable Techniques to Pamper Yourself: It Starts With Shopping
Take Time For YOU With a Drink a Day!
Prioritize YOU with Just Ten Minutes of Leisure!
How a Tub Soak Can Change Your Life
Exercise Your Way to a New Year


…over a million ways to reduce stress, relax…take care of myself.

Yeah.

The more I shop, the more stuff I have to manage. The less $ I have for…food. Mortgage. Utilities. Gulp.



Lattes satisfy my sense of smell, sight, taste, and sound. Hissing steam warbles like an exotic African songbird. But will a drink really change my life?



Leisure? America’s love affair with this concept needs to be reevaluated. Now.

Bubble baths soften my skin and create a perfect book-reading environment (yes, water-soaked novels expand accordion-style on my shelves). But how long can I sit in tepid water?




Laura the dog loves to jog, and every hundredth outing, I feel like a lioness, thundering through across African plains, the wind streamlining my mane, blood pulsing to my limbs. But Midwest temperatures and wind chills have shut us inside, where we dream of sandy beaches and salty warm air.



A few years back, God whispered the PERFECT way to take care of myself. And whispered. And whispered.

“…I will ask the Father and He will give you another Counselor to be with you forever—the Spirit of truth” (John 14:16).

“…the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you” (John 14:26).




Dear ones, God provided an omniscient, omnipresent, omniperfect Soulmate who can comfort, counsel, and advocate. The Holy Spirit can whisper soothing words, rub the ache from a broken heart, nurture that work in progress, advise on that stressful situation.

Wanna take care of YOU? Die to self, and let the Holy Spirit do His job. He can nurture you physically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally…in a million and one ways!

Happy New Year, friends!

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Behold the Babe! Rejoice! by Patti Lacy


Put down the gift wrap. The mug of hot chocolate.



Turn off the caroling CD. Mute the Christmas special.
Retreat to a lonely place. A closet. Your study. Bow your head and behold…



The tiny babe, lying in a manger, who brought salvation through grace by faith.
Tiny hands. Tiny feet. As helpless as every newborn since the beginning of time.
Yet supernaturally, unutterably different.
The babe you behold is Christ the Lord. Part of the Triune God.



“The Eternal Being, who knows everything and who created the whole universe, became…a baby, and before that, a fetus inside a woman’s body.

If you want to get the hang of it, think how you would like to become a slug or a crab” (Mere Christianity, Lewis, 179).



For you, for me, Jesus Christ allowed His glorious attributes to be imprisoned in human flesh.
Allowed men to scourge Him. Slander Him. Hang Him from a cross.



In your lonely place, behold that babe! Touch His downy cheek. Hear his mewling cries.
And treasure in your heart the knowledge
That for you, He was born to die.

May the inconceivable joy of the Newborn King set your soul ablaze as never before.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Passion Most Pure in a Green World


By Patti Lacy with a little commentary at the end from Gina Welborn because if anyone's gonna give a little commentary, well, Gina will do it. After all, she does have a pillow tastefully embroidered, "If I wanted to hear your opinion, I'd have quit talking by now."

Here's Patti:


A Passion Most Pure?

“You’ve got to read this book,” friends kept telling me.

“Why?” I asked, stubborn as usual.

“It sizzles!”

A Christian book?

“It’ll keep you guessing.”

A romance?

When about the twentieth person recommended Lessman’s book, I ordered it and found myself checking the mail, impatient to get in my hands the novel that kept the ACFW on-line book group buzzing for at least two weeks.

I started A Passion Most Pure Thursday, traveled Friday and Saturday, and still managed to finish the book tonight. Somehow I wedged in a Mother's Day celebration and put in a good day’s work.

This exciting new novel flows like an easy read but has twists and turns and multiple multiple points of view. So many traditional plots are combined that I lost count. Good girl loves bad boy. Bad boy goes good. Good girl goes bad. Father dies in war. Good girl reads Bible to nearly blind widow. Father—I don’t want to ruin the ending for you, so I’ll stop here.

In the backdrop of 1916 Boston, tensions escalate in a family as the father and older son prepare to go to war. But another conflict threatens to blow up the tranquil O’Connor home when the two beautiful eldest sisters, Faith and Charity, fall in love with the same handsome Irish rogue, Collin McGuire.

The brash Collin wheedles his way into the affections of all of the loveable O’Connors as he prepares to wed one sister, then confesses his love for the other. A tenuous impasse is reached as Collin, Mr. O’Connor, and the eldest O’Connor brother enlist in the army while the rest of the O’Connors return to Ireland to nurse their ailing grandmother. Even on beautiful Eire—especially on beautiful Eire—romance pursues Faith and Charity, and more entanglements result.

Engagements, advances, rebuffs, and avengement kept me glued to this page-turner, yet solid writing invited me to savor the description, the emotion, yes, the passion that oozed from the pages.

Now for my take on the physical nature of A Passion Most Pure. It was refreshing to grapple with the subject of sexual urgings within the pages of a Christian book. Lessman presented real characters that she allowed to sometimes go “too far” in their physical relations. Then she pulled them asunder, showing God’s take on the resulting tangle of emotions and commitments.

Biblical admonitions are sprinkled liberally and at apropos places in the text. This is a novel which can be used for teaching, for discussion on the proper role of sex in both marital and premarital relationships. Great job, Julie! Can’t wait for the next book in your “Daughters of Boston” series!

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Gina here:

When I first heard about Julie's book, I almost immediately got off the computer, ran...umm, drove to Lifeway, and bought A PASSION MOST PURE and Camy's ONLY UNI because for weeks I'd been meaning to buy the latter. My hands were slightly shaking, my heart slightly racing when I gave the book to the cashier. Why? After hanging out for several months at the Seekerville blog and exchanging a few quips with Julie and having e-met Camy a good six months or so earlier, for the first time in my life, I felt like I was buying books from some ladies I knew. My friendly acquaintances. Writer almost-friends. Gals who knew my name, listened to my occasional absurd ramblings, and liked me still.

In honor of our living green theme, I thought reposting my review of A PASSION MOST PURE would be fitting. After all, Julie's characters are wonderful examples of living in the green valleys and compost heaps of Christian faith. Sadly, I can't find my blog post. Drat. However I did find where I wrote this:

"I pray that this book will tear up the best-seller lists so publishers will see that inspirational readers can handle realistic sexual tension in their romances as well as imperfect characters."

Amen!

A PASSION MOST PURE has been awarded ACFW Debut Book of the Year, Holt Medallion Award of Merit Long Inspirational, and Holt Medallion Award of Merit Best First Book.

Impressive. Well deserved.

I think I can speak for Patti when I say, if you haven't read any of Julie Lessman's books, do so. One or all three would make a wonderful and uplifting Christmas gift for a girlfriend, sister, mother, grandmother, aunt, or Inkie who likes to read books but not write book reviews. Julie's Daughters of Boston series is one of the best examples of Christian romances that has ever been published.

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Phil. 4:8


Julie's books can be purchased at Amazon, Lifeway, Mardel,Christian Book Distributors, Barnes and Noble, Borders, Target, and Walmart.

For more info on Julie, visit her website (http://www.julielessman.com/) or swim on over to Seekerville (http://www.seekerville.blogspot.com/).

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